Black Lives Matter, Black, Indigenous, People of Color’s (BIPOC) Voices Matter
I tell the truth about systemic racism in our history and our present, especially the exploitation of Black bodies, the genocide of Indigenous bodies, and the brutality of the police.
I believe BIPOC’s experiences of racial aggression, large and small.
I interrogate my whiteness and the collective whiteness.
I explore racialized dynamics in our work together.
I apologize and offer repair when I cause harm.
I encourage communal and ancestral healing, beyond the therapy room.
All Bodies are Good Bodies
I work from a Health at Every Size (HAES) model.
I never promote intentional weight loss.
I recognize that the desirability of bodies is wound up in capitalism, ableism, and white supremacy.
All workers have value.
I respect sex work and sex workers.
We are partners in your care
We collaborate on diagnosis and treatment plans.
You have the right to know what I’m doing in session, and why I’m doing it.
If something isn’t working, we imagine solutions together.
Sex Positivity
I support developmentally appropriate, consent-based sexual expression in every stage of life.
I believe in the power of pleasure.
I embrace kink and non-monogamy as part of the human experience.
I honor asexuality.
Gender
I affirm all understandings of gender.
I do not require dysphoria to validate someone’s identity.
I support trans kids.
I do not turn away from the violence the medical industrial complex has done to trans folk.
I engage with that industry to increase access for my clients.
Question Everything
Nothing is exempt from examination, because everything is touched by systems of oppression.
We have a right and a responsibility to question all aspects of our world with the goal of pursuing liberation.
The therapy field has been used as a tool of oppression and can easily slip into those dynamics again.
I invite and initiate deep examination and truth telling about our work.
We will intentionally create something new together.